I Walk The Line
My life is my very own movie-drama, and I am the star, whether I want to be or not.
So, I made it to Day 308. Awhile ago, I started seeing this guy. He seemed really nice, but given my history I wasn't about to just jump right in to bed with him seeing as how I want a real relationship. So I played the waiting game. We dated, actually dated, made out, the good old fashioned stuff, in the time we dated there was only three days we didn't see each other. He was smitten, I was smitten, it seemed to be going along well.
So, this past weekend, we went camping. It seemed like the right time to take the relationship to the next level. Sex. Yes, I know I said a year, but really the madness behind that was just because I wanted to be sure I was in a relationship with someone who cared and wouldn't screw me over. I thought I had found it.
So, we camped, it was a great weekend, we had sex etc. Came home, posted the pictures of the trip on facebook (fuckin' facebook) and about ten minutes later, I get this message from his ex girlfriend using his account telling me they're still sleeping together, he lies, he's a pig, etc etc. Now, normally, I would put this down to her being bitter and trying to break us up because she's not over him, which is true by all accounts except hers. But the thing that gets me is she says they last slept together on thursday before he and I went camping, and that is actually one of the only days where I didn't see him. So, I called his phone to let him know about it, he doesn't answer, but then he was going to head straight to bed because he was so tired. So I figure, what the hell, Ill just go over there. This is not something I want to deal with over the phone. So I do. Get there, he's downstairs smoking pot with a buddy who just stopped by (normal) didn't have his phone on him. Okay. I take him upstairs to his computer, show him the messages, was like 'I'm not accusing you, but...?' He denies it. Swears up and down it's not true, she's crazy, and she's not over him, trying to break us up, he'll talk to her. I look at him for telltale signs of a lie, see none, and basically say 'all right, deal with it. I don't want to have to hear shit like this from your ex, it really upsets me. but if it happens again, then that's it'. And now I'm going to proceed with a little more caution.
Some people think I'm crazy.
Do you?
So, I made it to Day 308. Awhile ago, I started seeing this guy. He seemed really nice, but given my history I wasn't about to just jump right in to bed with him seeing as how I want a real relationship. So I played the waiting game. We dated, actually dated, made out, the good old fashioned stuff, in the time we dated there was only three days we didn't see each other. He was smitten, I was smitten, it seemed to be going along well.
So, this past weekend, we went camping. It seemed like the right time to take the relationship to the next level. Sex. Yes, I know I said a year, but really the madness behind that was just because I wanted to be sure I was in a relationship with someone who cared and wouldn't screw me over. I thought I had found it.
So, we camped, it was a great weekend, we had sex etc. Came home, posted the pictures of the trip on facebook (fuckin' facebook) and about ten minutes later, I get this message from his ex girlfriend using his account telling me they're still sleeping together, he lies, he's a pig, etc etc. Now, normally, I would put this down to her being bitter and trying to break us up because she's not over him, which is true by all accounts except hers. But the thing that gets me is she says they last slept together on thursday before he and I went camping, and that is actually one of the only days where I didn't see him. So, I called his phone to let him know about it, he doesn't answer, but then he was going to head straight to bed because he was so tired. So I figure, what the hell, Ill just go over there. This is not something I want to deal with over the phone. So I do. Get there, he's downstairs smoking pot with a buddy who just stopped by (normal) didn't have his phone on him. Okay. I take him upstairs to his computer, show him the messages, was like 'I'm not accusing you, but...?' He denies it. Swears up and down it's not true, she's crazy, and she's not over him, trying to break us up, he'll talk to her. I look at him for telltale signs of a lie, see none, and basically say 'all right, deal with it. I don't want to have to hear shit like this from your ex, it really upsets me. but if it happens again, then that's it'. And now I'm going to proceed with a little more caution.
Some people think I'm crazy.
Do you?
posted by Kristin at
8/19/2007 10:35:00 PM
